I almost clicked it...
Not because it looked suspicious, but because it didn’t. It looked completely normal—something quick I could take care of and move on from. For a second, I didn’t question it at all.
That’s what stuck with me.
We all know scams exist, but what’s changed is how ordinary they feel now. The ones I’m seeing lately don’t stand out. They show up in the middle of a normal day and ask you to do something that seems reasonable—check an account, fix a delivery issue, call for support.
And in that moment, it’s easy to go along with it.
Over the past week, I’ve been paying closer attention to these. Not the obvious scams, but the realistic ones—the ones that work because they make sense.
What I keep coming back to is that they all follow the same pattern. Something feels important, you’re asked to act, and it happens just fast enough that you don’t stop to think. That’s really all it takes.
So instead of trying to figure out whether something is real, I’ve gotten into the habit of pausing and asking a few simple questions: Was I expecting this? Am I being rushed? Am I being asked to click something or give information?
If anything feels even slightly off, I slow down. Taking that pause solves most of it.
If you missed any of this week
Here are the posts from this week:
- This Didn’t Feel Like a Scam… Until It Was
- The “Account Problem” Email That Looks Completely Real
- The New Tech Support Scam (It Starts With a Google Search)
- The “Package Delivery” Text Scam Everyone Is Getting Right Now
- The 5-Second Test That Stops Almost Every Scam
One thing I’m considering
I’m thinking about adding a simple page where you can send me something that feels off—an email, text, pop-up, anything—and I’ll take a quick look.
If that’s something you’d use, just reply and let me know.
Scams are getting better, but they still rely on the same thing: getting you to act quickly. You don’t need to outsmart them—you just need to slow them down.
PS — If something ever doesn’t feel right, trust that instinct. It’s usually right.
-Mike